by The Lulu
Who are you?
Have you ever paused, even for a moment,
To ask yourself: Who am I?
Why am I here?
What’s the reason for my being, the essence of me?
Let me tell you something profound
You are not a mistake, not a coincidence.
There is a purpose for everything
And a purpose for everyone.
But here’s the real question:
Are you living that purpose?
Do you know the reason behind your breath,
The beat of your heart,
The fire in your soul?
There’s a manual for life,
A guide written long before your first cry.
But do you have it?
Have you read it?
Are you walking the path that was carved for you?
This is your call to awaken,
To step into the fullness of who you are meant to be.
Not aimless, not lost, but alive with meaning.
Because purpose is not just about existence;
It’s about living right.
So, take a moment.
Reflect. Seek. Discover.
Because the world needs you,
In your fullness,
Living your purpose,
Walking your truth.
I Got Everything I Prayed For, And I Was Still Miserable
There is a version of me that exists in photographs.
She is always smiling. She is standing beside achievements, beside milestones, beside the things she spent years asking God for. If you looked at those pictures, you would probably think she was happy.
Sometimes I look at them and think the same thing.
Because the truth is difficult to explain.
I got everything I prayed for.
And I was still miserable.
For years, my life was built around waiting for the next thing. The next promotion. The next opportunity. The next relationship. The next version of myself.
I became convinced that happiness was simply running a little ahead of me. Not far enough to disappear, but far enough that I had to keep chasing it.
Whenever something went wrong, I told myself it was temporary. Whenever I felt exhausted, I told myself it would make sense later. Whenever I felt lonely, I told myself I was building a future worth the sacrifice.
I became very good at postponing joy.
Then the things started happening.
The promotion came first. Then another. The salary increased. The apartment improved. My life began to resemble the one I had imagined during all those years of wanting.
People congratulated me. Family members told me they were proud. Friends said I was thriving.
I said thank you. A lot.
What I did not say was that something felt strangely absent.
Not immediately. At first, it was just a feeling I couldn’t name.
I would achieve something and feel excited for a day. Maybe a week.
Then the excitement would disappear.
I would immediately start thinking about the next goal. The next target. The next milestone.
I remember sitting alone one evening in the apartment I had worked years to afford. I had just received good news at work. The kind of news that should have made me ecstatic.
Instead, I sat on my sofa and cried.
Not because anything was wrong.
Because I realised I had spent so much time building a life that looked successful that I had forgotten to build a life I actually enjoyed living.
I knew how to achieve.
I did not know how to be.
The distinction sounds small until it isn’t.
Achievement gave me direction. It gave me structure. It gave me something measurable.
But when the goals were reached, I was left alone with myself.
And I did not know what to do with that.
I started noticing things.
I could discuss career plans for hours but struggled to answer simple questions about what brought me joy.
I had hobbies listed on social media profiles that I hadn’t touched in years.
I had friendships I rarely invested in because I was always busy pursuing something.
I knew how to work.
I had forgotten how to live.
That realisation was harder than any professional challenge I had faced.
Because there was no checklist for fixing it. No deadline. No performance review. No reward waiting at the end.
Just the uncomfortable task of learning myself again.
Slowly, I started making different choices.
Not dramatic ones. Small ones.
I stopped treating rest like something I had to earn. I called people back. I read books without trying to turn them into productivity lessons. I spent time doing things that would never appear on a résumé.
Things that would never impress anyone.
Things that simply made me happy.
The strange thing is that none of those changes made my life look better from the outside.
But they made it feel better from the inside.
And that is a difference I wish I had understood earlier.
I still have goals. I still want more from life.
But I no longer believe happiness is waiting for me on the other side of achievement.
Because I finally learned something success never taught me.
A beautiful life and a successful life are not always the same thing.
And if I had to choose between the two today, I know which one I would choose.
